Are mothers and food (almost) synonymous?
Mothers take on all sorts of roles in a family's life, but certainly purveyors of food are tops on the list. Although many dads are equally adept, involved or active in food prep for their families, since Mother's Day is upon us, I'm going to talk moms and food.
Think of your mother and the food she served you and your family. In my home, it was meals she learned from her own mother, sturdy, hearty foods that included meat, potatoes and something green. Meals were simple and predictable: if it was Sunday, it was pot roast. Friday was the fish fry. The (dreaded to me) meatloaf emerged mid-week, along with the ubiquitous chicken and the chicken-casserole-leftovers following. There was usually a pressure cooker full of chili or a vegetable soup in there, too.
Desserts were for special occasions, and featured made-from-scratch lemon meringue pies, a peach-stuffed pastry and a sheet chocolate cake, loaded with double the chocolate buttercream frosting. She made almond-flavored cookies we called pink ladies, due to their pink frosting, that disappeared within a day.
In the summer, we would pick cherries, can peaches, put up other fruits for the long, snowy winter ahead. Sometimes, Mom would get an inspiration, and we would eat something far distant from our Midwest table: say, an Asian-themed noodle dish. Once, she and a neighbor spent the better part of a day cooking up bubbling pots of Italian "gravy", or what we know as the Italian red sauce. It simmered all day, and we ate the gravy atop all kinds of dishes well into the following spring.
This brings me to my question: what kind of food did your Mom cook for you? Another question: what are your memories of the kinds of food associated with your mother? Finally, if you will be with your mother this Sunday (hint: Mother's Day), what will you feed her as a small thanks for all the care and feeding she's done for you? (I'm cooking for my family, and it will be grilled fish, a green salad, homemade sweet potato fries, some broiled garlic asparagus, and perfect oatmeal cookies.)